Did I befriend Philippa Gregory on the Queen Victoria’s transatlantic crossing?
The day we disembarked from Florida, a captivating woman and a man got on the elevator with my family. Her hair was naturally fair – perhaps a soft grey with frosted highlights, or was it a muted blonde with sprinkles of grey? The coloring depended on how the light caught it. From the front, her hair duplicated the swept-back style Philippa Gregory wore, but the side view revealed cropped curls on top while the rest of her hair hung just above her shoulders.
The short lady beamed with enthusiasm, thrilled about life in general. When she moved, her gold jewelry shimmered around large stones. Her effervesce bubbled throughout the entire elevator. She laughed, overjoyed about something, pushing the button for the Lido buffet. This woman was clearly Philippa Gregory, except an older, more serene version of the photos on the back covers of her books.
Her expression was open and she held her chin up with an air of royalty, like the character’s in her historical fiction. She turned to me and giggled a greeting. I stared, absorbing every detail of her face. For fear of scaring the dear lady, I smiled and looked away.
My husband tapped my arm and nodded at Philippa. He noticed something amazing about her, too. It wasn’t my imagination.
I took him to the library, looking for a back cover photo of the famous authoress we encountered. I hurried up the spiral stairs and back down, determined to find the Gre fiction section.
Three books by a Gra author leaned to one side but where Philippa Gregory’s books belonged, the shelf was empty. Room remained for eight hardcover books. It was the only vacant space in the library.
“We saw the historical fiction author, Philippa Gregory, on the elevator. They don’t want anyone to recognize her,” I insisted.
The following afternoon, Philippa and the man ate at the 24 hour Lido buffet. A woman approached her table. They shook hands and talked briefly. The woman left. Perhaps another fan.
Two Belfast dames also sensed Philippa’s heightened presence. The redheaded cocky dame considered the lady’s high cheekbones and regal stance obvious signs of her success.
“Opportunities only come once in a lifetime. Go over and ask her if she is Philippa Gregory. She might be flattered,” the blonde, flirtatious dame said.
“It would be in poor taste to interrupt her while she is eating. I’ll wait until the next time I see her,” I said.
Philippa made eye contact, maybe recognized me from the elevator. No, her eyes roved around the room taking in everyone with equal interest. Maybe, she studied people for inspiration on a new project.
My opportunity came at afternoon tea. The only seat in the room faced Philippa. I sat, wondering if I seemed intrusive. The man traveling with her introduced himself as Anthony. While he talked, I kept one ear fixed on Philippa’s conversation with a Belgium bombshell across from me.
“Rejection is the worst. You never really get used to it. And it comes. Expect rejection to come because you can’t do it without rejection. I can’t quite describe the pain with a rejection but they come and you have to expect them. You can’t stop. And when I got rejection, I decided I didn’t care what others said. I felt I was right in what I was doing and didn’t let others tell me not to continue. I determined to persevere and that’s what you have to do until you finally get there,” Philippa said.
I didn’t have to nerve to jump into their conversation. Instead, I sat taller and asked the group whether they were familiar with two cities where my ancestors owned castles. Philippa fixated on me. She scooted closer and asked what research I had done.
“Well, none. I assumed locales ending with “hide” or “shire” were sections of London,” I said.
“Why no,” Philippa explained. She asked me if I had Googled the towns and suggested a few other research avenues off the top of her head. She impressed me with her knowledge regarding English monarchy. She suggested I talk to the ship librarian for recommendations on atlases and maps.
We shared family tragedies and personal antidotes well past the end of tea time and during the two-week journey across the big pond. With each bit of information, I kept changing my mind as to whether it was Philippa Gregory.
She introduced herself as Sophie, explaining she didn’t like to use her formal name. Perhaps Philippa Gregory was a pen name anyway.
A man broke into a home she owned in Yorkshire. He committed assault and battery on the person who lived in her house. Maybe a crazed fan looking for Philippa Gregory. She also owned property in Yorkshire.
She lived on the coast outside London but frequented her Yorkshire home. Perhaps Philippa Gregory spent winters in the south and summers in the north.
She and Anthony had a total of six children in their combined family. Philippa Gregory and her husband raised the same number of kids.
Anthony shared the same first name as Philippa Gregory’s husband. Did coincidences like that really happen?
She preferred staying in the shadows, observing other peoples’ flirtations and dancing. Sounds like a clever way to gain inspiration
for developing characters in historical romances.
Every day, she ate breakfast at noon. Could she be writing through the night while I wasted time in bed wishing my husband would close the balcony door so the gale force winds wouldn’t cause the wall panels to howl?
She questioned my marital skills during each conversation and evaluated my behavior. For instance, my filling a plate with sandwiches and pastries for my husband prompted her to pat Anthony’s hand and comment on how wonderfully I treated him. She asked if my husband instructed me to get the food. “Yes, he instructed me to return with egg salad sandwiches,” I explained. “Oh well. That does make a difference.” She digested this detail, likely analyzing relationships for establishing motives in her novels.
Every minor event intrigued her. She had never seen nacho chips before and found the concept of corn creating a chip fascinating. Passionate writers exaggerated insignificant elements of life.
Parables about men rolled off her tongue. She asked whether my husband liked the food I took back to my cabin. “Why no. He refused to eat any of it and was upset because I took so long,” I said. “That is true for all men. No man ever understands what a woman does with their time.” If she were a writer, it made sense she theorized about mankind for situations to play out in her novels.
With the same wispy air of a timeless classic, she explained how women ought to return to the old way of managing men, no raised voices or nagging. Women used to direct a man’s actions without resorting to such behavior. I shrugged. Maybe Philippa Gregory provided marital counseling in her novels, life lessons for her readers.
One time, she stumbled into an interview about how her love-live evolved. She wasn’t usually forthcoming about personal information, but once the interviewer started talking, her story slipped out. Her love story will appear in an upcoming publication along with some other people’s stories. The interviewer commented that although he taped her lovely voice, he wasn’t able to capture the dazzle in her eyes. Clearly, she was famous.
She magnetized the energy around her. Anthony became captivated by her when they first met because she was such a striking woman. She giggled, saying, “Striking wasn’t what I want. There are many characteristics more appealing for a woman than striking. I’d like to be one of those.”
My life stories intrigued her by playing out like a series of novels. “Actually, I do write, ” I said. Finally, on the last day of the trip, I asked what she did for a living. She bowed her head and gazed at Anthony. “I never did do much of anything. I was born in the wrong time. Perhaps if I had been born in a different period I might have done something more.” Yeah right. The Tudor period. When I coaxed her for more information, she picked up a corn chip and marveled at the toppings. “They eat these in Mexico? They really are delicious,” she said.
I remained undecided about whether the woman on the Queen Elizabeth was my favorite authoress, Philippa Gregory. It doesn’t matter. She was my Philippa Gregory.
For having known her, I admired Philippa Gregory even more. Being exposed to her manner of relating to people and her philosophies regarding relationships taught me lessons in writing; observing and cherishing reality provided material for flavoring fictional relationships in my stories. For instance, my protagonist in the Stone Zone Mystery finally gets to meet her idol, only to discover life isn’t what it seems for the rich and famous.
Thank you, Philippa.